99 Questions for Couples – A Fun Way to REALLY Get to Know Someone

These questions are great for couples looking to learn more about each other, even if you’ve been together for years! They will get you thinking, and spark some great conversations. Some might even have you stumped!

Even if you’ve been married for 10 years, some of your partner’s answers will surprise you!

See if you can learn something new about your significant other!

Questions for Couples

In this list you’ll find…

  • Questions to get to know someone
  • What is your favorite…
  • Would you rather questions
  • 9 Important questions to ask before getting serious

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Questions to get to know someone:

  1. If you could choose any career what would it be?

  2. What’s one thing on your bucket list you just HAVE to do?

  3. If you had one day left to live, what would you do?

  4. When you were younger, what did you want to be, what was your dream career?

  5. Do you consider yourself an introvert or an extrovert?

  6. If you could live anywhere, where would it be?

  7. How do you think someone close to you would describe you in three words?

  8. How would you describe me in three words?

  9. If you had three wishes, what would they be?

  10. What is your biggest fear?

  11. If you could spend the day with any famous person (dead or alive) who would it be, and what would you guys do?

  12. What is one topic you consider yourself passionate about?

  13. What’s something you would change about yourself if you could?

  14. What’s something you would change about the world if you could?

  15. What are your least favorite foods?

  16. Where would you want to live… near the beach, in the forest, in a big city, or on a farm?

  17. How do you think you’ll die?

  18. Which of your character traits would you want to pass onto your children?

  19. What is your favorite physical feature about me?

  20. What is your favorite thing about me that’s not physical?

  21. How would you describe your dream girl?

  22. What item would I be most surprised to find in your bedroom?

  23. How would you describe the perfect date?

  24. What is your favorite vacation spot?

  25. What is your love language?

  26. Where do you see yourself in five years?

  27. What song would you describes me, or our relationship in general?

  28. What are some of your biggest pet peeves?

  29. Are you a procrastinator or a go getter?

  30. What is your relationship like with your family?

  31. Are you a cat person or a dog person?

  32. What was your first impression of me?

  33. What were you like as a kid?

  34. What would you say is the biggest turn off for you?

  35. If you could learn any language, which would you pick?

  36. What are your biggest goals in life?

  37. If your house was on fire and you could only grab three items, what would they be?

  38. What is your dream car?

  39. What were you like in high school?

  40. What is one physical item you can’t live without?

  41. What is your current job? Do you like it?

  42. What do you think you spend way too much money on?

  43. Do you consider yourself judgmental?

  44. What would you say are your strengths?

  45. What do you think our biggest similarities are?

  46. What do you think our biggest differences are?

  47. If you could’ve witnessed any event in history, what would it be?

  48. Which celebrity drives you nuts? Why?

  49. If you only eat at one restaurant for the rest of your life, which one would it be?

  50. Are you a morning person or a night owl?

  51. If you had to change your name, what would you change it to?

  52. If you could start any business what would it be?

  53. Are you an organ donor?

  54. What skill do you wish you could master?

  55. If you had the chance to be some sort of a performer, would you do it?

  56. Do you play any instruments? What instrument would you like to learn?

  57. What’s the best advice you’ve ever gotten?

  58. Where do you picture yourself settling down to live at?

  59. What would you say is your spirit animal?

  60. You were just gifted $100,000… what do you do with it?

What is your favorite…

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  1. What is your favorite childhood memory?

  2. What is your favorite thing about me?

  3. What is your favorite hobby?

  4. What are your favorite foods?

  5. What is your favorite dessert?

  6. What is your favorite animal?

  7. What is your favorite movie?

  8. What was your favorite Disney movie?

  9. What is your favorite way to spend a weekend?

  10. What was your favorite toy growing up?

  11. What is your favorite musical genre?

  12. Who is your favorite celebrity?

  13. What is your favorite thing to do after work to unwind?

  14. What is your favorite smell?

  15. What are your favorite summer activities?

  16. What is your favorite tv show?

  17. What is your favorite part about being in a relationship?

  18. Who is your favorite family member?

  19. Where is your favorite place to relax?

  20. What’s your favorite restaurant? Favorite dish there?

Would you rather questions:

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  1. Would you rather give up internet or junk food?

  2. Would you rather be married with a family and poor or be alone forever and be rich?

  3. Would you rather be beautiful with a low to average IQ, or be ugly with a genius level IQ?

  4. Would you rather be deaf or blind?

  5. Would you rather work a crap job and be able to retire in 10 years, or work a job you love for 50 more years?

  6. Would you rather be able to speak to animals or speak every language?

  7. Would you rather have a chef or a maid

  8. Would you rather end world hunger or hatred?

  9. Would you rather be apart of an arranged marriage or spend your whole life alone?

  10. Would you rather have twelve children or no children?

Important questions to ask before you commit to a serious relationship:

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  1. What are your religious beliefs?

  2. How would you describe your money habits?

  3. Do you want kids? How many?

  4. What do you think your parenting style will be like?

  5. How do you picture your wedding?

  6. What were the biggest issues in your past relationships?

  7. When in a heated argument, do you prefer to solve the issue right away, or wait until you’ve calmed down to talk about it?

  8. What are your political views?

  9. What would you say are your biggest weaknesses when it comes to maintaining a relationship?

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